Bitter-Sweet
You must know bitter, to know sweet...
.. So, as we all grow up.. we've all made our mistakes in life.. We have our regrets.. and we have those times where we wouldn't sacrifice anything, but to have lived that moment.. With that said, there are certain things in life that our unavoidable.. For instance, you have to fall to learn to walk.. You have to experience pain, to understand please, hot to know cold, etc.. And without these errors, pain, sadness, and even joy.. we wouldn't understand the world as it is.. Now, the interesting part of it all, is time.. We all will make the same certain mistakes sometime or another, its just a matter of time.. We've all had those people that have told us, this and that about something.. and that' it would happen this way or that.. And with that being said to us, we either choose to listen to the advice of these others, or we ignore it... Believing that we, some how can do otherwise, better.. An interesting part of this concept is relationships.. We all have some learning to do when it comes to love.. We cheat or we get cheated on, We go exploring to look for what we want, then we think we know what we want, and then next, we hurt another.. We all have a certain amount of learning to do when it come to love, before we actually grasp what love is.. We have our moments of enfactuation, Our passionate relationships, our "the perfect person" relationships, and we have our moments where everyone wants to date us - moments in our lives, for lack of better way of saying it.. Now, the sweet part in this concept is where we stand in our learning.. Once we've learned a certain concept, idea, or gained an understanding of something.. We can watch, predict, and even play with an outcome we know will happen with another.. For instance, a death is a horrible pain we will all experience in life.. And when it happens to us, we expect a certain amount of comfort and support from our friends/family.. and once we either get what we needed, or don't... we understand the situation..... Then, when we see another person in that situation .. we know exactly how to be there for that person, if we choose to.. And, you could even use the situation, if u were that daring and heartless, in your favor.. With all this said.. Look at your friends.. look at the situations they're in now.. the way they handle things.. the way things are headed, etc.. And with a certain amount of knowledge acquired through time and situation, considering u posses this knowledge... You'll know exactly how to handle their situations.. and what's in store for them.. U can give advice, but beware.. few take it.. There's a certain pleasure in watching a movie, knowing exactly what will happen, and having the outcome turnout, just the way you expected it..
"If you play with fire, you'll get burned".
