Weltanschauung Rules

The objective of this blog is to convey and perhaps rewrite the principles and laws that we follow in our small yet happy community. We, as fellow members of the Indian coterie, seem to face problems with the rules and laws of dating within the group periodically. There a few basic rules that we’ve laid out but haven’t elaborated on. Of course there are about a dozen rules when it comes down to the principles of dating, but I’m focusing more so on the rules within a group.

1. We're brothers before any girl. No relationship should interfere with our friendship
2. Don't fuck with my ex buddy.
3. Don't get buddy-buddy with my girlfriend, ex, or somone in my family.
   

The problem with these rules is the small fact that we are apart of a big group. No matter how hard we try, what party we’re at, what area we hang out around, there is always this connection back to the group. The fact remains, that between friends and exs, there are always remnant feelings between your friend and their ex. So, now with that being said, is their an ethical way to approach this situation? You must realize that no two people are alike, and in the same train of thought, no two people approach a relationship the same way, nor feel the same way about such principals in general. In my laws of dating, I approach my situations with honesty. Though, the quality of honesty doesn’t change the situation, it gives way to an ethical approach, but doesn’t emend the moral issues. If you wanted to date my ex, talk to her, whatever it maybe. Just ask. That’s all you have to do. I’ll tell you my feelings, and you decide from there. If I want to talk to your ex, date her, whatever it maybe. I’ll ask. It’s as simple as that. Then based on your reaction, I will decide from there. Not all people posses the quality to let their friend talk to their girl, but don’t be quick to conclude that there aren’t people out there that are ok with this.

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